Speak in Love

As a Christian, I feel a need to share the hope that I have. Afterall, what sort of Christian would I be if I knew there was a flood coming, but didn't offer those around me the chance to get on board the ark?? However, I'm not sure that debating is the way to win hearts and minds. As we've seen in recent events, it seems to incite deep division and anger.

I think Paul came to that conclusion too - that the method of debate, characteristic of the culture of the Greeks he was with, was not an effective way of sharing his hope. That's not so say that we shouldn't (in a loving way!! - this bit seems to be left out a lot!!), share what we believe to be true when invited. But it should always be done gently, and with respect.

Jesus was only ever "in your face" with his answers when he was addressing the arrogant, religious people of the day. He made a point of lovingly being amongst people in greatest need of him. So whilst I don't believe we should be afraid to speak, no matter what it costs us personally, I also don't think we should go out there looking for opportunity to debate with others.

Live the love of God. Be a gift to those around you. Lift them up. Show them by the way you are, what God's love really is. Share it when they ask you! Share the hope that was never meant to just be "ours". But sharing by confrontational debate, I don't think will ever win hearts and minds.

"While I was with you, I decided to teach you only about Jesus Christ. I taught you about his death on a cross. That was the most important thing. I lived among you as someone who felt weak. I was very afraid. I was careful when I spoke to you and when I taught you God's message. I did not use clever words that seemed to be wise. Instead, the power of God's Holy Spirit showed you that my message was true" (1 Corinthians 2:2-4 EASY) - Paul.